A Heart 4 Business: What if the negative person is my spouse? Dan Miller

What if the negative person is my spouse?

Joanne and I address the negative spouse issue. Two months ago my podcast theme was Stay Away From Negative People. I talked about my 3-hour rule where I’ll spend 3 hours a year with negative friends but certainly not 3 days or 3 weeks on a vacation.

Well, I knew there was the elephant in the room and didn’t address it fully. I had a whole lot of you ask this question:

“Dan, I just listened to your podcast about staying away from negative people. What if the negative person is my wife?”

I got both – what if it’s my wife, and what if it’s my husband? And I heard from people who said, “Dan, I am the negative one. How can I stop?”

In this episode I asked my wife Joanne to join me and respond to the wisdom you, the listeners, submitted.

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Renowned businessman Jim Rohn once said, “You’re the average of the five people you spend most of your time with.”

Here’s a recap of the 5 steps for addressing negativity in a marriage relationship:

Recognize “security” is not just money in the bank. Emotional security includes affirmation, support and encouragement.
Acknowledge different personality styles. There are not “good or bad” , “right or wrong” styles – just different. See the added value of having different perspectives.
Look for the “fear” behind the negativity. Have you let the person down at previous times?
Recognize not hitting a goal is not always “failure.” It may be the very step required for your ultimate success.
Listen more talk less. Let your actions convince your spouse rather than your words.

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